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At first Published: Oct. But how often accomplish we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No femininity, sexual orientation, or question is ban, and all questions remain anonymous.

A study in the Journal of Femininity Research found that 63 percent of the women who faked an orgasm didn't initiate the sex; 29 percent hadn't wanted to romp at altogether. How to act: First, know this: Men think an orgasm is the end-all, be-all, says sex therapist Lori Buckley, Psy. Many women gave boring reasons for faking an O: They were bored, they wanted their affiliate to be able to orgasm, they wanted to spare their partner's feelings. Discuss it outside the bedroom accordingly she doesn't feel pressured, and ask if there's anything new she'd akin to to try.