Sex IRL: 7 couples dish on what it's really like to have threesomes together

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Threesomes hold something of a mythical appeal in our collective sexual imagination. Adding an extra body to a sexual encounter is hot as hell designed for any number of reasons, not slight of which is just the absolute visual and physical sensory overload so as to comes with it. Popular as the fantasy might be, research suggests the IRL experience is more of a mixed bag. In practice, threesomes are actually not that common.

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