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These days, finding creative new date ideas is harder than ever. Whether you're commuting to work or traveling 20 steps from your bed to your makeshift desk and back again, most of us just don't have a lot of creative juices left over when the day is all over. Some of us have probably watched the entirety of our Netflix queues by now and if you're like me, your couch has a you-shaped imprint in it from all of the quality time you're spending together. And if you've got kids learning from home or in-person or some mix of the two that's a whole other level of complication. But if you're really lucky, you've got someone who loves you and wants to hang out with you, even if that often means staring at the same screen for the millionth day in a row. But because we love love, we thought we'd come up with some alternatives, in case you'd like to give the couch some alone time too. Some of these are social isolation-approved, others you may have to file away for when it's safer to go out and about in crowded places again.

I had the phrase not a unicorn in my Tinder profile for years. It wasn't to indicate distaste designed for the mythical being because, hey, I change my hair color enough en route for be in solidarity with their colourful aesthetic. Instead it was to bring to a halt down on messages from couples who were unicorn-hunting. For the uninitiated, the term unicorn-hunting typically describes the custom of an established couple searching designed for a third partner to engage all the rage either threesomes or triads relationships amid three people. The joke is so as to the existence of such a female is so elusive she may at the same time as well be a mythological creature. Apparently wanting to have a threesome amid consenting adults is a common after that totally healthy fantasy, and triads are one of many relationship models so as to can work for different people.